So! – Aids to Right Speech

So, here I am once again traveling. Since getting back from The Netherlands I’ve been ‘on the road’ visiting in Derbyshire and the East Midlands. So’s a great opener and many people find it almost impossible to start a talk or open a conversation with any other word. So, how come you are limping? So, when shall we plan to meditate this evening?

Such small words might seem to be unnecessary and silly however they do serve a function.

The truth is that so is a filler-word, and we all use filler-words. The thing is – well, I mean, you see – the human mouth can work an awful lot faster than the human brain. Nobody can think as fast as they can speak, and we all develop strategies to cope with it. Harold Wilson’s was probably the best. He did not smoke a pipe, or at least not in private. The pipe was there to help him through interviews. When he was asked a difficult question, he could fill it, tamp it down, light it, inhale, exhale, and all the time he was secretly thinking.

From Telegraph article.
Nobody can think as fast as they can speak. Now there is something to ponder when thinking about Right Speech.

Faults And Imperfections

Trees say so much in a benign kind of way. Slowly, slowly and with no fussing they self-heal and fuse and bend with conditions. There is not a perfection of tree. No mistakes in their growth life. Age brings character, individuality and a grandeur hard to ignore.

For trees the passage of time expressed in their gnarled and nobly form is to be loved. Same with humans?

Kindness Grows

At the Pink Geranium Cafe
At the Pink Geranium Cafe

Business conducted in a businesslike way.
Food served without a smile.
Thanks received without looking up.
But that’s not how it was.

On first name terms in the office,
Smiles in the cafe and
Gratitude received graciously,
me almost in tears!

Yes. Much kindness coming my way.

And the world is a better place for kindness given expression. News today of an organ donation which benefited two Thai children. One life stolen two lives saved. Kindness grows.

More From The Green Heart

Yes indeed this area is aptly named the Green Heart of The Netherlands. This morning after coffee with apple cake my host and I went to a near by nature reserve to water-bird-watch and walk part of the Green Heart Way. That’s a long distance path – and very green as you can see from The photographs.

And Happy Buddha’s Birthday. Often called Wesak.

A Story from Milarepa – Merit Post

How do we let life, with all of its disappointments and sorrows soften our heart? In the Tibetan tradition there is a story about the great cave-dwelling yogi Milarepa that illuminates the often bumpy road we travel in the process of releasing resistance and making peace with ourselves.

From an article in Tricycle Spring 2012

This is a transfer of merit post for a woman murdered in Cambodia and for her infant daughter now struggling for her life. The whole situation needs our most compassionate heart.