While out shopping this summer in Idaho USA I found myself leafing through a rack of posters and saw Robert Frost’s poem, ‘The Road Not Taken’. Later I got on-line and Googled ‘Robert Frost’ and came up with some interesting results. One link sent me to a transcript of a sermon by a Unitarian Minister in New Hampshire where Robert Frost lived. He pointed out that Far from being a hymn to rugged individualism, this poem is a gentle satire on indecisiveness, the distortion of retrospection, and the seduction of self-justification. That’s why the poem is titled not ‘The Road Less Traveled,’ but ‘The Road Not Taken’–for there will always be a road not taken, and we will never know where, for worse or for better, it might have led. Here is the sermon should you want to read more. Thanks to the Wayback Machine Internet Archive for saving the sermon.
According to the minister, in 1953 Robert Frost was reflecting upon “The Road Not Taken,” and said, I wasn’t thinking about myself there, but about a friend who had gone off to war, a person who, whichever road he went, would be sorry he didn’t go the other. He was hard on himself that way.
The Road Not Taken
By Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth
Then took the other as just as fair
And having perhaps the better claim
Because it was grassy and wanted wear
Though as for that, the passing there
Had worn them really about the same
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet, knowing how way leads onto way
I doubted if I should ever come back
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence
Two roads diverged in a wood
And I took the one less traveled by
And that has made all the difference
When I found the poem I was thinking of a friend who was, at that time, hovering uncomfortably at a crossroad in her life. Now she has made her decision and, like Robert Frost’s friend, I hope she will not be too hard on herself with regards to the path she has chosen.