A Buddha asked his disciples, ‘Why do we shout in anger?
Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, ‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you?’ asked the Buddha.
‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?
Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
The answer can be found here on Beyond The Opposites blog.
Thank you for the link to long time sangha friend Norman in California.